Saturday, August 25, 2012

Where You Live?


“Every man is guilty of all the good he didn't do.” ~Voltaire (nom de plume for François-Marie Arouet), French writer, historian and philosopher (1694-1778)

Brittany Utopia, the real estate agent assigned to us by my company to handle our relocation, was talking non-stop as she had been since picking us up at LAX, the Los Angeles International Airport. We had quickly tossed our bags into the spacious trunk of her pearl-colored, double-parked luxury sedan. I was directed to sit in the front seat while Teresa had been relegated to the back. 

We were provided with folders full of information about Simi Valley, replete with listings of houses for sale at prices which all seemed above the price range we had identified. Brittany’s constant patter was punctuated by her repeatedly gesturing toward me with her right hand.  

No amount of persuasion was going to reassure us at this point, however. We were moving from Columbus, Ohio to Southern California. Nothing could soften the impact of the sticker shock we were experiencing. We had already resigned ourselves to an hour-long commute just to find a community we might be able to afford to live in. 

Brittany, on the other hand, seemed to have ignored the questionnaire we had completed and was following her own agenda. At every listing visited, we received the usual realtor-speak: spacious kitchen, wonderful light, great neighborhood, a park nearby, convenient shopping, a great fixer-upper, etc.  Each time we had to ask, “How much is this one?” only to be disappointed by the response. 

Jet-lagged and dejected, we were finally being driven to our hotel room by our captor, but only after we promised to resume our “quest for the perfect home,” the next morning. 

“What about Moorpark?” I asked casually. “What about it?” was Brittany’s retort, her veneer cracking ever so slightly. “Isn’t it the next community over?” I inquired. “Well, yes it is,” came the response. “But, you don’t want to live there. It’s just not right for you.”  She seemed to be driving faster, as if she was in a hurry to get us to our hotel. 

“I read that the house prices might be a little better there,” I continued. “Well, of course they are, because no one wants to live there! Moorpark doesn’t have a great reputation, and you want a house in a good community with a good reputation… Don’t you?” And before I could ask another question, she chirped, “Oh look, there’s your hotel. Isn’t it nice?” 

The car swung abruptly into the parking lot and came to a sudden halt under the canopy. Brittany popped the trunk and hopped out of the driver’s side. She had pulled two of our three suitcases out of the trunk before we reached the back of the car. “My card has my pager number on it if you need to reach me before tomorrow.”  

“See you tomorrow morning bright and early and I’m sure we will find you the perfect house right here in Simi Valley.” 

As she drove off, I couldn’t help but wonder if Brittany Utopia was her stage name.  

What’s in a name? For that matter, what’s in the name of a town? Particularly, if it is the town in which we grew up. In the Gospel of John, the disciple Nathanael, who we know today as St Bartholomew, asks the question: “Can anything good come out of Nazareth?” (John 1:46) 

Why does the place where we came from or the place with which we are associated make a difference?  How many stores or businesses add locations like Beverly Hills, London, Paris, and Hong Kong just to enhance their prestige? Why do companies pay exponentially more for addresses on Park Avenue, Rodeo Drive, or Wilshire Boulevard because it “sends the right message”? 

What if instead of Jesus of Nazareth, Our Savior was Jesus of Beverly Hills or Jesus of Santa Monica or Jesus of Wall Street? Somehow we have come to believe the locations with which we are associated add or detract from us.  

This thinking is not necessarily sound. Even the Magi made the mistake of looking for “the newborn King” in a big city rather than in a tiny town called Bethlehem. Our value as a human being and our contribution to the common good is no better if we come from a rich suburb and no worse if we hail from an unknown, small town.  

Nazareth, in Jesus’ time, was a small working-class village of less than 500 people. There is a certain reassurance that God chose to appear to us in the midst of a poor working-class family. “Can anything good come out of Nazareth?”  Yes, Jesus came out of Nazareth and he was more than good! 

It should not be the place that defines us; rather it should be we who define the place. The answer to the question “What good can come out of this place?” should be “The good that is within us and our willingness to make it so.” Ask yourself what good can come out of your country, your state, your town, your parish…  

Dear God: May this place be better because of me. 

“Do all the good you can, by all the means you can, in all the ways you can, in all the places you can, at all the times you can, to all the people you can, as long as ever you can.” ~John Wesley, Anglican cleric and Christian theologian; founder of the Methodist movement (1703-1791)

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